Why I said no to playing with you at a kink party, and why it is totally OK for me to say no.Read more "The Top 5 Reasons I Said No to Playing with You"
An honest and funny review of the Satisfyer line of vibrators from a kink blogger.Read more "Review: Satisfyer Vibrators"
I’m a bdsm minimalist. How do you apply the principles of minimalism to BDSMRead more "I’m a BDSM Minimalist"
What to expect your first time attending a BDSM club or a kink event. Tips and explanations of your first peek into the BDSM world.Read more "Your First Kink Event: A Crash Course"
Two years ago I wrote an article called safewords are not enough. I stood by my feelings about why safewords shouldn’t be the end all be all of BDSM. Two years later I still feel the same. Many play partners and sessions later, I still don’t use safewords.Read more "Why I Still Don’t Use Safewords"
What is like to have a threesome when everything goes right?Read more "What is it Really Like to Have a Threesome?"
a solo poly person has their core self that consumes the majority of their resources and have satellite relationships around that core.Read more "Setting Your Boundaries as a Solo Poly Practicer"