New York City is an iconic vacation destination. We see it all the time in movies, and it is probably one of the most visited cities in the US. I went for the first time this summer, and despite not being much of a big-city lover, I found a few fun, sexy things to do while I was in town.
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I have seen bad, abusive and unhealthy polyamorous relationships. I have also seen beautiful and functional monogamous relationships that last a lifetime. I also have seen how toxic monogamy can twist our ideas of healthy relationships and how it dominates our cultures to the point that we expect everyone to follow the relationship escalator of marriage and kids, despite high divorce rates. What I’ve found is that the more I observe relationships of all kinds and remain open to their foundation ideas, the more complicated it appears to name the “best” way to have a relationship.
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Why I said no to playing with you at a kink party, and why it is totally OK for me to say no.
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An honest and funny review of the Satisfyer line of vibrators from a kink blogger.
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I’m a bdsm minimalist. How do you apply the principles of minimalism to BDSM
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What to expect your first time attending a BDSM club or a kink event. Tips and explanations of your first peek into the BDSM world.
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Two years ago I wrote an article called safewords are not enough. I stood by my feelings about why safewords shouldn’t be the end all be all of BDSM. Two years later I still feel the same. Many play partners and sessions later, I still don’t use safewords.
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What is like to have a threesome when everything goes right?
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a solo poly person has their core self that consumes the majority of their resources and have satellite relationships around that core.
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Nudity doesn’t come naturally for everyone. Depending on the culture you were raised in, throwing off all your clothes and getting comfy in your B-Day suit around other people might be the stuff of nightmares. American culture teaches us to feel shameful about our bodies. In the locker room we all turn away and quickly […]
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