The 2018 Last Minute Kinky Gift Guide. Gifts for polyamory, kinky people that can be ordered last minute for the holidays. Books, online courses and moreRead more "The 2018 Last Minute Kinky Gift Guide"
A quick beginners introduction to flogging by Alice Little. Learn how to flog.Read more "Kinky Crash Course: Flogging"
How do you spice up the bedroom in a small power dynamic way – here are some quick ideas to get you startedRead more "Teeny Tiny Power Dynamics"
New York City is an iconic vacation destination. We see it all the time in movies, and it is probably one of the most visited cities in the US. I went for the first time this summer, and despite not being much of a big-city lover, I found a few fun, sexy things to do while I was in town.Read more "A Sampling of Fun, Sexy Things to Do in NYC"
What is like to have a threesome when everything goes right?Read more "What is it Really Like to Have a Threesome?"
Nudity doesn’t come naturally for everyone. Depending on the culture you were raised in, throwing off all your clothes and getting comfy in your B-Day suit around other people might be the stuff of nightmares. American culture teaches us to feel shameful about our bodies. In the locker room we all turn away and quickly […]Read more "Trying On Your Birthday Suit: 5 Tips for Getting Used to Public Nudity"
My blog posts have been a little sparse the month of February and I apologise for that. I typically stay on a pretty consistent schedule. The awesome news is that I will be bottoming/co teaching at Rome BDSM Conference with my partner XCBDSM in just a few days. So if you are in Europe you should come down […]Read more "Rome BDSM Conference and Time as a Poly Constraint"
Let me admit something right from the start. I love having sex without barriers. I, like many other people, enjoy the way it feels. I think it provides a closer connection to my partner and it’s just plain hot. I also acknowledge the amount of risk that goes into being barrier free or ‘fluid bonded’ with a […]Read more "Polyamory Without Condoms"
There is No Such Thing As Safe Sex Yep, you heard me. There is no such thing as safe sex. There is only Safer sex. Safe implies that if you are careful, you can protect yourself from pretty much anything. The only way to have completely safe sex is to abstain from sex. When we choose to […]Read more "Herpes, Oral Sex and Safe Sex"