The 2018 Last Minute Kinky Gift Guide. Gifts for polyamory, kinky people that can be ordered last minute for the holidays. Books, online courses and moreRead more "The 2018 Last Minute Kinky Gift Guide"
A quick beginners introduction to flogging by Alice Little. Learn how to flog.Read more "Kinky Crash Course: Flogging"
The bottom line is these boxes give a true sampling of real kink at luxury quality, which isn’t something I’ve seen anywhere else in the worldRead more "Kink Gifts : Luxury Gift Boxes"
One of the biggest themes I hear in poly is that it’s great because you don’t have to rely on one person to meet all of your personal needs. Whether those needs are mental stimulation, companionship, romance, sex and connection. While it’s true that it’s impossible for one person to meet your needs, it’s also not the solution to simply add more people.Read more "The Truth About Emotional Work"
How do you spice up the bedroom in a small power dynamic way – here are some quick ideas to get you startedRead more "Teeny Tiny Power Dynamics"
Hello and welcome to my new post series: Kinky crash course! I have been in the kink scene for a little while now, and I get a lot of ‘how to get started’ questions. I remember when I first got involved in the social scene and realized that there was SO much information to learn. […]Read more "Kinky Crash Course: Wax Play"
Why I said no to playing with you at a kink party, and why it is totally OK for me to say no.Read more "The Top 5 Reasons I Said No to Playing with You"
I’m a bdsm minimalist. How do you apply the principles of minimalism to BDSMRead more "I’m a BDSM Minimalist"
Two years ago I wrote an article called safewords are not enough. I stood by my feelings about why safewords shouldn’t be the end all be all of BDSM. Two years later I still feel the same. Many play partners and sessions later, I still don’t use safewords.Read more "Why I Still Don’t Use Safewords"
Nudity doesn’t come naturally for everyone. Depending on the culture you were raised in, throwing off all your clothes and getting comfy in your B-Day suit around other people might be the stuff of nightmares. American culture teaches us to feel shameful about our bodies. In the locker room we all turn away and quickly […]Read more "Trying On Your Birthday Suit: 5 Tips for Getting Used to Public Nudity"